Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Are Singles really happy?

‘Jaane Kyon log pyar karte hai, Jaane kyon wo kisi pe marte hain’,
remember this famous song lines from the movie ‘Dil Chahta hai’, a song
that was liked by both singles and couples alike. Reason- it
demonstrated emotions of both of them and still accepting both sides of
it and infact agreeing to it from the core of their heart. It actually
expressed the split mentalities of the people who felt that they were
happy being single than into a relationship and vice-versa.

Though singles give thousands of statements to support their statements
like spending their entire salary on themselves or eventually popping
up treats from their friends rather than caring about their girlfriends
or spouse, yet at the core of their heart they have an urge of having
someone special in their life. They want someone who would share their
joys or sorrows or just an experience in may be bits and pieces but
this feeling of sharing their day-to-day experiences is something that
they crave for.

We as Indians have grown to live together, and bonding in relations is
something that matters a lot in their life. This thing continues even
when we grow up. Besides youngsters who move in big studies as of jobs
or studies feel lonely after being away from home and this is the time
they have a feeling of a loneliness thereby leading them on a way of
finding that ‘special someone’. Do singles really rock then or they
just flaunt that they rock? Can a person be really happy without being
into relationship or they want someone to share their feelings.
Personally, I believe whatever side of fence you are, grass always
looks greener on the other side.